To kick a cadet out IIRC requires investigations and report that needs to go to Region, who will deliver the final verdict and or actions.
If this is the first real incidence, the course of action here should have been talk to cadet, with a letter to parents inviting them to the sqn, however it is likely that the parents will visit after final parade. If done when the OC is absent, the OC has to be fully appraised of how and why, because they will have to incur the sh!t storm this will create as the adj regardless doesn’t have the executive remit. I used to tell them they wouldn’t be considered for flying, gliding and camps, but gliding doesn’t currently have any weight, flying is sketchy and the camps with the general lack of places is also no longer a proper threat.
Having spoken to friends who work in schools around dealing with bullying, they have said that you could probably have a quarter of a senior school on fixed exclusions for bullying if they didn’t take a broader view. Which is quite a scary thought and TBH potentially similar levels must be able to be equally applied to the Corps, given we draw from the same basic stock.
I do think that the ATC policy although drawn from various modern guidances can be read as too black and white and people who run scared of their shadows will over-react. Policy is one thing, application in the cold light of day is something completely different. If you apply it as zero tolerance with no quarter given, then you are opening yourself up to a whole host of problems, IMO. Because after the initial incident you have no option but to follow the same course of action. So a less rigid approach gives you some leeway in how you deal with things. My way would be (after ‘investigation’ etc) on final parade get the perpetrator, if the investigation proves to be conclusive, to apologise in front of the whole squadron, a letter of apology to the person concerned and a grudging handshake. A little embarrassment in front of their peers is good for the soul.
I got this idea from a mate in the police has done it with low level ASB, as an apology to the victim in person, with the kids parents present. He said the kids who do this are extremely embarrassed and sheepish as are the parents and only the really hard core / stupid reoffend. If they decline the offer, then it goes to full prosecution. He said that a lot of kids get caught up with the wrong crowd / do heat of the moment stuff / thing for a laugh and do things completely out of character and being kids don’t, regardless of the things that they get told in school, still fully understand the consequences / impact of what they say or do, especially when it comes to using the technology they have at their fingertips.
We used to play knock/bud up as kids and it’s only as an adult with ageing parents that you understand the impact it could have on old people. I think it would be regarded as ASB now, but was kids being naughty kids when I was growing up.