When I joined at 13, I joined the ACO because a) one of my friends was in it, and b) it did what the Scouts did, but better, it did what the Army cadets did (ish), and it did some of what the SCC did (ish).
Now?
I’ve got a 15yo daughter, she’s gone up through Rainbows, Brownies and now Guides. Up until 5(?) years ago I’d have happily advised her to ditch the Guides for the ATC. Not anymore… My two younger kids are in Rainbows and Brownies - and while it’s true to say that they won’t be in the running to have the kind of experiences that the ACO can offer it’s cadets, the chances now of an individual cadet actually getting one, or two, or three of those different experiences during their cadet career are pretty minimal, but they will still be expected to take part in an academic syllabus they have little interest in, and given the quality of teaching these days, simply don’t need.
I was a cadet from 89-92: I went to 3 UK annual camps, two Germany camps, did a gliding scholarship, probably had 50 (five zero) hours of powered flight, 20 or so weekends away, 10 days sailing in the Channel with the LSP, and four or five weeks of other camps, as well as all the DofE stuff. I was in no way exceptional in my wing or my Sqn - everyone I knew went to camp every year, half the NCO’s on my Sqn had done Germany camps.
I would put good money on there being less than a handful of cadets in the entire ATC who’ve done what I was given the opportunity to do. It now compares averagely with the Scouts, just with a load more rubbish.
We no longer stand out.