And I am not a parent, demanding , as you put it, it was a suggestion to make sure the lender got their money back asap. I am also the Chair for this Squadron and a Trustee so giving me bank details should not be an issue
Seriously!! Get a reality check and a grip of yourself!!
He needs 2 meals because he is tall?? I am 6â4 and eat the same as my friends who are 5â 8
He will of had the normal 3 meals a day all week same as everyone else and survived.
He will of had a breakfast before he left camp,
If over 4hrs they should of received a packed lunch
At worst when he gets home he may be a bit hungry
But itâs not life threatening or dangerous
Come on give yourself a shake and stop being a panick merchant!!!
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Nothing about money in ACP4 (child protection), however, ACP20 AI202 para 21e says âCFC officers are not to: Give or loan personal money to cadets or other CFAVs.â. The rule is echoed in the sections for SNCO/WO and CI
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I said tall as opposed to big as he is not over weight but does enjoy his food.
Surely I am the one to get angry over this and not you? Your comments were offensive and again unhelpful. I would go as far to say upsetting! Is this the way one human being treats another??? If this is the case then you disgust me!
Where is he on camp? That may help some people provide information as to local people that could contact the camp com if you canât.
The camp should have made suitable provisions for food that your son doesnât need to buy any.
Well, here is what you signed forâŚ
Note the suitable prepared section⌠That falls to youâŚ
The second bit, âair cadet careâ.
Youâve signed to say you are happy with it.
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Thank you for this.
I would like to say that I am not abrasive but I am very upset at some of the replies on here!
As the new Chair of this Squadron I was told I had a very likeable character and that the Wing Chairman had good vibes about me. I think his comments count for more than your crude judgement of me.
First and foremost I am a mum, please remember that.
How long is the journey home and what type of camp is it?
You are taking this out of context as I am asking about money not his care, for goodness sake!
Ok. Deadlydi you need to stop getting so angry. From an outside youâre being unreasonable, regardless of whatever else is going on. Stop complaining. It is completely unreasonable for me to give my bank details to a stranger because your son canât manage his money properly.
Use the advice youâve been given, speak to your OC or WExO. Donât you dare berate any staff member coming back off camp for acting properly and within the regulations.
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Donât I dare, OMG you people are inhumane!!!
And I think that we need to reitereate that - unless something odd is happening here - cadets will be issued sufficient food for the journey.
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Locked. Youâre being inflammatory and unreasonable seemingly deliberately. Thereâs nothing inhumane about this - eating a bit less because youâve lost/overspent isnât a safeguarding issue, itâs a lifelesson. You have all the advice you need but youâre not willing to listen to it because you donât like the answer. Your son will be fine. The staff member you plan to tell off for doing nothing wrong, however, wonât be. You might well put them off ever giving up a week of their annual leave for the benefit of your child again. Think about that.
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